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You are a lonely man and you want to find your soul mate. But you don't try to find easy ways in your searching. So here you are, on the Russian or Ukrainian dating site. You had found some
interesting lady and decided to write her "Hi!". Now you are waiting for her answer. And here it is! She finally wrote you "Hello". But now you feel some fear inside. You ask yourself: "What
next? What should I speak about to a Russian girl?" And you know that you can't be silent to long. She will be bored and won't write you again. But you don't want to lose this chance. So what
should the man write to a Ukrainian or Russian lady to be interesting and charming for her?

Usually men give the leadership to a woman being limited by short replies. But even the most communicative Russian or Ukrainian bride will write you some moment: "So, now you tell me something".

First of all you shouldn't worry. There are a lot of different topics you can write her about. It can be:

• The story about your childhood. Tell her about your studying at school, what did you go in for, did you have pets, funny stories about them and so on. Russian and Ukrainian brides like when man speaks about his childhood. It shows them that you are quite open man.
• Your family. It will be great if you tell her about your family. Write her an amazing story of the first meeting of your parents if you know it. It worth to say about your brothers and sisters and your relationships. She will imagine how family man you are. It would be great if you tell her about your family traditions. The thing is the Ukrainian or Russian woman will be interested in it because she knows that different countries can have different traditions. Some of traditions can be new and unusual for her.
• Your hobby. Write her about your preferences in art, sports, music, food, your attitude to travelling and other. Maybe you both have the same interests and you will have to talk about. Don't forget that some kinds of sport in Ukraine or Russia are not as popular as in your country. For example you like to play golf. So it might be interesting for a lady to get to know about it. Anyway, the man with hobby will be interesting for ladies.
• Your aspirations and goals. Ukrainian and Russian women like purposeful men. You should tell about your dreams and what do you do to reach them. She will appreciate it.
• Your achievements in any sphere. Every Ukrainian and Russian lady views a man as her future husband. That's why this information will be very important for her.
  

That was the first step to a successful conversation. And what you should not write to Ukrainian and Russian brides? First of all don't lie to her. Women hate lies and usually don't forgive it.
The only way not to confuse in your stories is not to lie. Of course you could just read your previous letters. But what will you do if you meet this lady in a real life some day? You can lose
her forever because of lies.

You also shouldn't write all the time about your superiority. It is not interesting for a lady to read for hours and hours about how cool you are. Especially, she will not know what she should
answer you. But you shouldn't write every time how perfect she is too. Ukrainian and Russian brides are pretty shy, so she will feel uncomfortable because of it.

If you don't want to hurt single Russian and Ukrainian girls you should not better discuss with her other people, especially other girls. She will feel unpleasant feelings. It can push her away
from you.

Try not to speak about something specific too long. Even the most interesting topic of discussion can get your lady bored. And if you noticed that your woman is losing her interest in
conversation, you should better gradually start to talk about something else.

Don't forget that you have a dialogue. It is important to remember that women don't like when the man speaks too much. So if she asked you to tell her about something, don't try to write her
everything in your first letter.

If you want the Russian or Ukrainian woman to like you, don't complain about your life. Not every woman will like a moaner and downer. She will imagine how you are complaining about all life
problems every day. It will be a big minus for you in her eyes.

You should better to try to avoid the dispute. It is not a good variant of speaking the first time. But if you become closer after some time of your conversation, you will be able to discuss
everything you want. And the lady won't be hurt.

And what can help you to become a gentleman in the lady's eyes? You should be very polite in all your messages. Ukrainian and Russian brides won't waste their time with a rough and tactless man.
Tell her a few original compliments, she will appreciate it. You also should have a few interesting and funny stories or jokes to tell. All women like men with a good sense of humor. And ask her
some non-standard questions like "What a lovely name you have. Why did your parents decided to give you exactly this name?" or "What would you wish if you had three wishes?". Ladies like
questions like these. But be ready to give your own answer to these questions too.

And finally the most important advice: be yourself. Don't try to become someone else and everything will work out. Good luck!

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